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I was stunned yesterday when I picked up the phone and heard our now-familiar SSA office case handler’s voice

I just wanted to let you know that we received Joseph’s birth certificate verification, so we’ll clear his application for approval. The card will be mailed to your home address. You can come by and pick up a print out of his number if you need it sooner.

Dan picked up Joe’s official number today. I have it in my hot little hands as I type (okay, well, it’s sitting on the desk next to me, but you get the idea). They even gave us the official certified copy of his birth certificate that they ordered (expedited, at their expense) because, once they verified it, they didn’t need it for their files. It’s a paltry bonus given the headache, but it’s really nice to have an extra and probably something they didn’t have to do, so definitely a thoughtful and appreciated gesture. I feel a thank you note coming on…which is saying something, given that I recently found a stack of half-written, half-addressed notes from last Christmas that never made it out the door (yet another major goof I get to beat myself up about).

I almost don’t believe it. After 4 months on this merry-go-round, we can finally stop and catch our breath. And amend our taxes. And open an education fund. And and and… An enormous burden has been lifted from my shoulders.

If I didn’t have so much to do now that I have this information, I’d stop and take a nice, long break and celebrate. But, I’m sick, and so are Dan and Joe (the little guy just finished up his course of antibiotics for an ear infection, which I suspect is not cured to boot). And I’m past a deadline at work, so I need to get the whip cracking. Plus, I have Halloween preparations on my plate: treats for Dan’s work, last-minute costume needs, and an entire meal for Halloween night when Nana and Noni P join us for Joe’s second Halloween. Photos coming soon…

Update: Joe’s social security card arrived before Thanksgiving. I don’t remember when, but it’s filed, safe and sound.

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We created this blog to keep friends and family updated about our adoption journey and to share our adventures with other adoptive families. Little did we know that our plans to adopt from Ethiopia would lead us to our son right here in the USA. Since Joe has joined our family, this blog is really about him, though we're not ruling out the possibility (in the distant future) of growing our family even more. Comments are warmly welcomed. -Dan and Shannon

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Joe in action

Joe on the run

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Playing chase

Joe and Maggie with Auntie Robin

Joe and Nani Deer playing

The only photo of Joe at LMB during Nani Deer and Auntie Robin's visit because he was being a stinker

Joe's serious about those trains at BN downtown

Debbie Robin visit - 21

Auntie Robin and Nani Deer take Joe downtown

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